Committing Acts of Curiosity

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I’m a fan of Improv Everywhere — they’re in the book! — and their many clever actions and performances that transform everyday life into something remarkable. You may have seen the most recent example, which made the rounds a week or so ago, “Stand Here for Dance Party.”

There’s a particular detail of this one, subtle but I think crucial, that I keep coming back to.

The video starts by showing a simple round decal being placed on a public plaza. “Stand Here For Dance Party,” it says. The design intentionally mimics a social-distancing decal. People look at it, and photograph it. And at last, someone actually stands on it.

If you haven’t already seen the four-minute video and want to before I spoil it, here you go:

Now that you’ve seen it, you know that once someone did stand on the decal, a squad of Improv Everywhere operatives, with boom boxes and impressive dance moves, converted the public space into (as promised) an open-air dance party. Very fun.

But here’s what makes this work: Not just the planning and the expert performers and the slick choreography and the clever subversion of social-distance design. None of that matters unless somebody stands on the decal. What activates this entire operation is curiosity.

That’s why I keep fixating on the opening sequence. Somebody looking at the decal — but steering clear. Somebody else looking — but then choosing to document, rather than participate.

Then somebody is curious enough to act — to see, you know, what will happen? I’m not an experienced GIF-maker so forgive my poor digital craftsmanship, but here’s the moment I’m talking about:

This woman is my hero! I love everything about her, her body language, her openness, the thrilling sense she radiates that anything could happen and she’s up for it. And if you’ve watched the video, you know that she in fact unleashed an experience that she (and many strangers nearby) will never forget.

What’s not in the video, but we know is true, is some huge majority of people not even noticing, or actively ignoring, the invitation to an impromptu, on-the-spot dance party. As always, attention is the first step.

But the next step is curiosity — and in this case, an act of curiosity. Taking that step to see what will happen. Maybe the answer is nothing! But maybe it is something you could never have imagined.

We face smaller versions of these crossroads all the time: even when attentive, we notice or half-notice things that we immediately choose to ignore because, why bother? What good could come of it? It’s probably nothing. Who cares?

Honestly, it takes a kind of courage to act on curiosity. After all, nobody else is actually standing on the decal. Surely if there were any payoff, someone else would be doing it already, right? Maybe. But there is only way to know for sure.

The prompt: Commit an act of curiosity this week. Next time you face that crossroads — go ahead and see what happens.

Virtual event next Tuesday

This idea of the “commiting an act of curiosity” will be at the heart of the virtual talk/workshop I’m working on for TAoN subscribers next week.

"The Art of Noticing: How To Be More Curious and the Payoffs of Paying Attention"

Curiosity is widely recognized as a bedrock of creativity, not to mention a trait that all sorts of businesses seem to value. And yet there’s little effort to cultivate and encourage curiosity, or make the most of it. This talk will remedy that, with concrete prompts and exercises, along with inspiring examples of the creative payoffs to noticing what others overlooked.

Tuesday August 3, 2021, 1 to 2 pm eastern*

* Note this time is a correction, an earlier note gave an incorrect time.

We’ll be doing this through Zoom. And don’t worry, it’s more of a lecture format — you won’t be expected to perform or be on camera or whatever! That said, it will include a Q&A period. But we’ll definitely keep it to no more than one hour total.

It’s a bit of an experiment, originally conceived as being for paid subscribers only. But after some feedback that I’ll explain some other time, I’m opening it up to all subscribers who register by the end of the week.

So click here to register. I think this will be fun!

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